09.30.08
the value of getting together
I was reminded again this past weekend of the value of getting together. A female colleague, whom I had not been in touch with for several months, sent around an e-mail to her contacts inviting us to join her at her house after work to “meet other fun and interesting women”. (What a great idea, by the way!)
When I arrived I was amazed to see 40 or so women, from all different backgrounds, mingling in her home getting to know one another. It wasn’t awkward because we were all there for the same reason i.e. to meet each other and get to know new people.
It turns out that I knew three people, one of whom was a client, one of whom mentioned she had been meaning to pass my information along to a potential client, and one of whom gave me a reason to e-mail a past work colleague that I have not had a legitimate reason to be in touch with for a while. Just that in and of itself was worth the time from a professional standpoint (that’s not to mention the value that comes from being energized and inspired by other talented women.)
Over the course of the two hours I met at least another twenty interesting and diverse women, several of whom I would like to stay in touch with for professional and non-professional reasons. We came together in a very natural way and had a great time making new acquaintances. As I was leaving I heard others say that we should do this again some time. I agree!
Tip of the Day: The next time you are looking for a new “venue” on an individual level (I would not recommend it for a firm event — you need an “extra draw” to get people to come to something like that), consider something that is simple and natural. Invite a group of fun and interesting women to mingle in an informal way. It’s amazing how easy it is for women to spend a few hours interconnecting, finding common interests, sharing experiences, providing encouragement/support, offering to make introductions, etc. There was no speaker to line up, no sporting event in the background, no planned agenda, no preparation — just women getting together with women. And yet, new relationships were made, new connections were discovered, new opportunities were unearthed, and everyone walked away with some good food for the soul.
