12.19.08
holiday cards – to do or not to do?
I found myself up late last night writing holiday cards. As with many of my clients, about thirty cards into the project I thought the unspeakable i.e. “Are these worth the time and effort?” I concluded that they were, and that they need to get out on time –even if just a few days before the holiday.
A holiday card with a handwritten sentence or two can go a long way in nurturing a relationship. I have clients who have even gotten new pieces of work because the receiver of the card was prompted to pick up the phone and reconnect. By the end of the conversation, new work was on its way. While not the intent of the holiday card, it can be an added benefit.
If you are going to write holiday cards, then you really do need to do exactly that i.e. write them.
Apply the golden rule i.e. “If I received a mass printed card in the mail with a pre-printed signature, how would that make me feel and what would I do with it?” “If I received a mass mailed card with a signature on it, how would that make me feel and what would I do with it?” “If I got a card with a handwritten note that made me know the writer was thinking of me specifically when she wrote it, how would that make me feel and what would I do with it?”
Personalizing your cards matters. Add a handwritten note to each card. Yes, it takes an extra minute or two, but it is actually not that difficult once you get the hang of it. Think along the lines of “thank you”, “I enjoyed”, “I am grateful for”, “I appreciate”. Your handwritten notes are a way to let your contacts know you value them. That’s why they are valuable to nurturing and growing relationships.
Do not include your business card. Yes, some people may differ with me on this point, but in my opinion, holiday cards are a time to express thanks and appreciation. They are a time to acknowledge gratitude and the difference that OTHERS (not ourselves) make in our professional and personal lives. I don’t think enclosing a business card sets that tone. Preprinted addresses and the name of your firm are fine, as the contact information is useful to the recipient.
Just because you don’t include your business card, however, doesn’t mean that mentioning work related topics is off limits. After all, these are holiday cards related to the professional relationships you value. Think along the lines of appreciation and gratitude.
It’s good to tell clients you enjoy working with them and even that you look forward to working with them in the new year. It’s good to thank referral sources and let them know they are appreciated. It’s good to tell new contacts that you enjoyed meeting them and that you look forward to connecting again.
The only caveat is that you must be truthful and sincere. The handwritten sentences you include are a reflection on you. They leave a lasting impression.
If you are having trouble getting started with your holiday cards (and congratulations to those of you who have already finished yours for 2008!), I have two suggested approaches.
1) If you are doing your cards at home, there is still time in 2008! Put on some music that gets you in the holiday spirit, light a candle, get comfy, and set a goal of how many you want to accomplish. You can do it!
2) If you can’t squeeze a few cards in this year, but want to try next year, here’s a way to get started early. After Thanksgiving put five or so holiday cards on your desk each day and commit to writing them before you leave that day. Once written you can either keep the finished cards in a stack and mail them all out at one time, or you can start sprinkling them along the way if that helps you feel as if you are making progress. Five plus five plus five adds up quickly and it is a lot easier than doing seventy-five in one sitting.
Happy holidays and happy writing…
